In certain scenario start_server may think it failed to start a redis server
although it started successfully. in these cases, it'll not terminate it, and
it'll remain running when the test is over.
In start_server if config doesn't have bind (the minimal.conf in introspection.tcl),
it will try to bind ipv4 and ipv6. One may success while other fails. It will
output "Could not create server TCP listening socket".
wait_server_started uses this message to check whether instance started
successfully. So it will consider that it failed even though redis started successfully.
Additionally, in some cases it wasn't clear to users why the server exited,
since the warning message printed to the log, could in some cases be harmless,
and in some cases fatal.
This PR adds makes a clear distinction between a warning log message and
a fatal one, and changes the test suite to look for the fatal message.
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